231 :Mr. Anonymous Date:04/09/16 15:06:48
>Btw, I know B-ko isn't a slut, and I doubt that she's ever dated a guy before.
How do you know?
234 Name:Live ◆1nK0g9zDgo [] Date:04/09/16 15:08:34
>>231
You can tell when you're in the same club as her.
Besides, she's not the type most guys would go for.
A total bingo for me though.
238 Name:Mr. Anonymous Date:04/09/16 15:10:54
Was A-ko talking about B-ko when she said she thought you liked ○○?
239 Name:Live ◆1nK0g9zDgo [] Date:04/09/16 15:11:38
>"Sorry for being so selfish, but let's just stay senpai/kouhai after all."
I can't even imagine how A-ko would react if I told her this.
241 Name:Live ◆1nK0g9zDgo [] Date:04/09/16 15:12:45
>>238
No, it's someone else. I do like ○○ a lot, but she's way out of my league.
242 Name:Mr. Anonymous Date:04/09/16 15:13:12
But B-ko turned you down yesterday.
I thought you'd given up on her.
251 Name:Live ◆1nK0g9zDgo [] Date:04/09/16 15:14:42
>>242
No, the one who turned me down yesterday was the liberal arts girl from my old part-time job.
I haven't talked to B-ko since summer camp.
253 Name:Live ◆1nK0g9zDgo [] Date:04/09/16 15:15:56
○○ would never go out with me. I'm not that delusional, guys.
259 Name:Live ◆1nK0g9zDgo [] Date:04/09/16 15:17:44
B-ko, ○○, and A-ko are all in my club, so it's the same risk for all three of them.
B-ko is the one I like. It just took me a long time to realize it.
263 Name:Live ◆1nK0g9zDgo [] Date:04/09/16 15:19:21
Alright, if B-ko should turn down my confession, I'll give ○○ a try next,
so please give me serious advice on how to confess to B-ko for now.
No word about ○○ for now.
272 Name:Live ◆1nK0g9zDgo [] Date:04/09/16 15:22:40
I have zero experience when it comes to love and relationships, but I can proudly say one thing now.
What happened between A-ko and me yesterday was a very valuable experience and I've gained a lot of confidence from it.
I'm almost starting to think it only happened to give me the courage I need to confess to B-ko.
I do feel bad for A-ko though...
274 Name:Mr. Anonymous Date:04/09/16 15:24:32
>>272
Dude, you should try going out with A-ko for a month, or a week at least.
At least, do her once or twice before you break up with her.
She'll probably try to put it off as long as possible, but you could use that as an excuse to break up with her.
It happens all the time. It's a valid and accepted reason for break-up.
275 Name:Live ◆1nK0g9zDgo [] Date:04/09/16 15:24:40
Yeah, I could get ○○'s number from the club register...
But can we please focus on B-ko now?
279 Name:Mr. Anonymous Date:04/09/16 15:25:50
>>275
Why don't you ask B-ko out to a family restaurant?
May the persuasion session begin!
281 Name:Live ◆1nK0g9zDgo [] Date:04/09/16 15:26:51
>>274
That would be too cruel to A-ko.
She's a really good girl. I couldn't do that to her.
No one here is with me on my "Break up with A-ko → Confess to B-ko" plan?
Am I the only one who thinks it's my only option...?
282 Name:Mr. Anonymous Date:04/09/16 15:27:13
Now listen here.
It's only a matter of time until B-ko catches wind of it.
You have to act right now or it'll be too late.
283 Name:Live ◆1nK0g9zDgo [] Date:04/09/16 15:27:55
>>279
But I have to break up with A-ko first...
288 Name:Live ◆1nK0g9zDgo [] Date:04/09/16 15:29:35
>>282
I think I still have a few days until the news reaches B-ko's ears.
But A-ko's friends might hear about it tonight if I don't do something.
That's what I'm worried about right now.
292 Name:Live ◆1nK0g9zDgo [] Date:04/09/16 15:33:50
There's this weird rule in our club that forbids club members to date each other.
Well, I don't really mind quitting the club as I'm going to be attending a prep school for the qualification examination soon anyway,
but if others were to find out that I confessed to B-ko without breaking up with A-ko first,
I might even end up losing my friends too, and that's not an option.
All I want is a girlfriend to support me when I'm studying for the exam.
303 Name:Live ◆1nK0g9zDgo [] Date:04/09/16 15:41:00
I think it's only natural that my actions get criticized.
Let me stress one thing in my defense though: B-ko is the one I like.
I admit any girl would have been fine yesterday as long as she'd been willing to go out with me.
But it's different now, I can't imagine going out with anyone but B-ko.
I said before that I finally realized I love B-ko, but it actually feels more like I just fell in love with her for the first time.
Have you ever suddenly fallen in love with a girl you saw in a dream a long time ago?
That's kinda how this feels. If it doesn't work out with B-ko, I'll go out with A-ko.
309 Name:Live ◆1nK0g9zDgo [] Date:04/09/16 15:42:50
With that out of the way, could you guys please tell me how to break up with A-ko?
I'm running out of time. Please.
I seriously have no idea how to break it to her.
320 Name:Live ◆1nK0g9zDgo [] Date:04/09/16 15:44:51
I can't really imagine A-ko telling her friends about me breaking up with her immediately after asking her out.
Am I being too naive?
339 Name:Live ◆1nK0g9zDgo [] Date:04/09/16 15:49:47
Do you guys know a thread where I can get advice from women?
I just got an e-mail from A-ko.
342 Name:Mr. Anonymous Date:04/09/16 15:50:55
>>309
"When I said I love you, I meant I love you like a little sister. I only realized it now."
How's this?
345 Name:Live ◆1nK0g9zDgo [] Date:04/09/16 15:51:57
To sum up the phone call:
- I told her I'm still awake because I couldn't fall asleep.
- She basically called to thank me and tell me how happy she is.
orz
353 Name:Live ◆1nK0g9zDgo [] Date:04/09/16 15:54:03
>>342
This is quite persuasive, actually.
I like it. I think I'll go with this.
356 ：Sakura-tan ◆VCSAKURAe. [sage] Date:04/09/16 15:54:17
Here's a serious advice: Ask A-ko casually if B-ko already likes someone...
If it's not you, go out with A-ko, and if it's you, look for an opportunity to break up with her.
360 Name:Live ◆1nK0g9zDgo [] Date:04/09/16 15:55:50
>>356
There aren't any girls on this earth that would like me without me doing anything for it.
And that goes for A-ko too.
370 Name:Live ◆1nK0g9zDgo [] Date:04/09/16 15:58:32
>When I said I love you, I meant I love you like a little sister. I only realized it now.
I feel like she might actually accept this as a reason.
It's ingenious.
378 Name:Live ◆1nK0g9zDgo [] Date:04/09/16 16:01:36
I bet B-ko will be quite surprised, and she's different than A-ko,
but hey, I managed to convince A-ko.
And if I manage to convince B-ko, I have this feeling she'll say "Yes.".
I didn't feel like this yesterday, but now I feel more confident for some reason.
385 Name:Live ◆1nK0g9zDgo [] Date:04/09/16 16:05:48
Thanks for all the advice, everyone.
It'd be great if you guys could read the following points:
- I've made up my mind to break up with A-ko and confess my love to B-ko.
It's thanks to this thread. Thank you very much.
- I can't go out with both of them at once because I don't want my friends to hate me.
- Now the thing is, I don't know what to say to A-ko.
- An excuse that allows me to go back to A-ko in case B-ko turns me down would be optimal.
But I guess that'd be asking too much...
387 Name:Mr. Anonymous Date:04/09/16 16:06:47
>>385
You're not planning on running directly to B-ko after breaking up with A-ko, are you?
392 Name:Live ◆1nK0g9zDgo [] Date:04/09/16 16:09:54
>>387
I have to break up with A-ko sometime tonight (over a phone call if possible).
And yes, I'd like to confess to B-ko as soon as possible after that.
Everything would break down if B-ko were to hear about what I did to A-ko first.
Plus, I'm not sure how much longer I can stay confident that I can convince B-ko.
I know myself. If I don't do it now, I'll never do it.
394 Name:Mr. Anonymous Date:04/09/16 16:10:32
If I was you, I'd give up on the women from your club,
and instead confess to all other female contacts in your cell phone.
If one of them says yes, and only then, I'd think of breaking up with A-ko.
403 Name:Live ◆1nK0g9zDgo [] Date:04/09/16 16:12:59
>>394
Yesterday, when I got turned down by the girl from my previous part-time job,
I realized it's too awkward to confess to someone I haven't seen in a long time.
They're more likely to turn me down too.
Besides, I don't go for any girl anymore. The one I like is B-ko.
I want to meet B-ko so bad tonight.
419 Name:Live ◆1nK0g9zDgo [] Date:04/09/16 16:21:46
There seem to be a few misunderstandings...
- I go to one of Tokyo's 6 big universities, so there's no risk of a rumor spreading throughout the university.
- Furthermore, our club has around 30 freshmen members, so there's no risk of the club collapsing because of something like this.
- I'm aware that my actions and words are the worst, but since 2ch is such a huge anonymous board, I can be straightforward and honest,
and get equally straightforward and honest advice in return. And I'm thankful too since I know that I'm too inexperienced in love matters.
It's something I would never do or say in public. If I manage to break up with A-ko before she tells her friends,
I'm confident that no one else will ever find out about it.
Even if A-ko were to find out about B-ko and me later on, I doubt she'd tell other people as long as she doesn't know
that I confessed to B-ko right after confessing to her. She'd consider it, but her pride wouldn't allow it.
Like someone already said, I'm fine with being the biggest asshole in this thread.
Just give me advice on how I can break up with A-ko without causing a shitstorm please.
428 Name:Live ◆1nK0g9zDgo [] Date:04/09/16 16:28:15
342 Name:Mr. Anonymous Date:04/09/16 15:50:55
>>309
>When I said I love you, I meant I love you like a little sister. I only realized it now.
This is the truth, in a way.
Since I haven't replied to her e-mail yet, I think I'm going to call her now...
I'm really nervous already...
439 Name:Live ◆1nK0g9zDgo [] Date:04/09/16 16:34:24
Thanks, everyone.
I'm going to call A-ko. It's the best for her too.
She's a good girl, but I guess I simply don't love her.
I'm going to report back later.
Long live the Single Men board!
443 Name:Live ◆1nK0g9zDgo [] Date:04/09/16 16:35:32
>Why don't you tell Akiko that you realized how she deserves a better man than you or some shit like that?
Good idea. I'm off now.
To be continued.